My Gold Fishes

Posted 27 May 2010 — by Haga
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I’ve been working at a Japanese Headhunting/HR consulting company for 3 years. My work is very seasonal. There is time (usually summer time and around Luna New year) I have absolute nothing to do so I check on my latest craze, Taylor Lautner’s pictures on internet. Instead spring time is the busiest. This year started on March. We got a lot of requests from Japanese companies who are developing new factories in Suzhou area. I had to go through a lot of resumes and interview Japanese speaking Chinese candidates. It is very boring process, once a while I find an excellent candidate. Summer is coming soon. I am getting less busy so I have some time to update my latest.

 

While Jesse was in Germany, Akiva and Kenaz wento a kindergarten field trip to a farm theme park. We picked strawberries, tomatos and cucumbers off their plants. Akiva and Kenaz were very excited.

There was a fishing pound. We caught gold fishes. These gold fishes moved very quickly. Most the younger kids got too frustrated. Their moms and grandmas took a turn and grab a little fishing net. Some of them got so into it. I saw at least two moms fell into the pound. Akiva was really good at catching fish. We took six gold fishes back home.

They survived several weeks in a bucket, I decided to buy a big nice fish tank with filtrated air circulation. I noticed a bigger one kept chasing after everyone. I looked at internet and found a bully fish have to be separated away from others. However I don’t have another fish tank I decided to ignore it.

Then one morning I found eggs all over in the tank. It is just my fishes keep me very busy. I had to change water. I have to make hard boiled eggs to feed yolk flakes to baby fishes. I am constantly doing something for fishes now!!

for Friends on Facebook

Posted 26 May 2010 — by admin
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Hi all my friends, relatives, and well-wishers who use Facebook who have wished me a Happy Birthday, and commented recently…

You know who you are, but I will list a few: Anna Morgan Von Bonn, Wendy Pupplo, Chris Doss, Debr, Drew Stagenhorst, Jacob Miller, Linda Scott Sanders Michael Jiang, Penny Duan, and possibly others.

I am grateful for your response. Some of you may have Happy Birthday greetings go out automatically, but I don’t care. I’m happy you send messages to me. I’m so sorry that I have not replied.

Unfortunately, Facebook is blocked in China. The blog articles Haga and I write are automatically uploaded to Facebook from our family blog (at www.taikongren.net/hard-boiled-shanghai/). But it is very difficult to actually get on Facebook. I’m not sure if I would check Facebook much even if I lived in the US, as I’m not a very social person hence don’t really like social networking thingys. But if I could, I would respond to you all.

I recently decided not to renew my VPN service because it was not very good. So currently I have no way to leap the Great Fire Wall. I will sign up for a new VPN in a week or two so that I can check all the Facebook messages and then sometimes reply.

Love to you all,
Jesse

PS. To certain good dear friends… you know who you are…I’m not going to play friggen Mafia. I’m not going to take a survey about my IQ, my EQ, my spiritual totem, my knowledge of sci-fi, which Star Trek character I resemble, my sexual prowesses, or any survey of any kind. I am just unmeasurable. And please don’t send me things involving “poking”, and “snow balls”; I will curse you…privately. When I jump over the Great Fire Wall to respond to people, it should not have anything to do with Facebook thingys.

Happy Birthday Jesse

Posted 25 May 2010 — by Haga
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We had celebrated Jesse’s birthday through weekend. Saturday we went to his favorite dim sum restaurant along Jinji Lake. Sunday I made chocolate cup cakes and we ate with ice cream. Monday on his actual birthday we celebrated over hand roll sushi and another chocolate cake.

It is hard to believe we have reached to the big age. When I met Jesse first time, his parents were around the age.

I never wanted to involve with none Japanese boy friend even after I met Jesse. I actually had tried very hard to find a Japanese boy friend. I went to a fortune teller to spend 80 dollars to find out my love life (she didn’t see anyone. Instead she told me I am cursed by water split). I always felt I wanted age with Jesse. If I don’t know him when he was 60 years old, I would regret it. It was really strange though. Yet I was very afraid to be totally stranger of Jesse.

I am going to be the big age this September. I am very happy to gain wrinkles with some one I always love.

Rest of the Europe trip

Posted 16 May 2010 — by admin
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First meal in Europe: danish, sandwich, and coffee

First and most important. My first meal in Europe. Cinnimon bun, sandwich, and coffee. 2 Euro at the coffee-shop next to the hotel in Regensburg.

Old church in Regensburg

Regensburg is an old town with a charming old-town. However, it is similar to all the other towns in Bavaria…its town with a church in the center. That’s a funny thing to see on the road from Munich airport to Regensburg…many little villages on the road…each with a church in the center. My personal feeling: Germany is beautiful. Germans are awesome. But would be better with fewer churches. And I’m not just talking about town planning.

Every old building in both Regensburg and Praha (Prague…more on this below) have all sorts of cool decorations / statues on them. I like this, when the statues are on the outside of the building. I’m not so into the baroque gold-covered statues on the inside.

First Beer in Europe

Every bar in Regensburg Old-Town is required to serve a particular beer depending on which building the bar is in. I was told that their are some 10 or so major breweries in Regensburg. They have maintained contracts with the building owners for hundreds of years which stipulate that establishments within any particular building must serve beverages from a particular brewery. In my opinion, all the beer there is great; I could not really tell which is better than any other. My first beer in Regensburg was in a Rock&Roll bar. BTW, everyone in Regensburg under the age of 40 seems to have multiple punk piercings. Like nose piercings or eyebrow bolts.

I mostly ate Turkish Donar Kebabs in Germany. They didn’t have beef sausages, but I did eat a lot of good sourkraut. In this beer garden (same as pictured in the last post), I ate this beef and potato dish with great dark beer. The sauce on the meet was pretty much the same as on the beef gulash dish in Praha. But very good. Its pretty much the only “German” dish I ate because most of the dishes were made with pork. I also ate big delicious pretzels every morning. My Chinese team ate Chinese food the first two nights. On the third night in Germany, most ate McDs. I begged them to try some Turkish food with me, but they were not into it.

At a recreation and physical therapy center

Germany has “public option” health insurance. When people need physical therapy (because of recovering from accidents…or just because of overweight), they can go to a “recovery resort” and their insurance pays for it. We toured one resort. Not anything incredibly fancy. Just a little hotel, surrounded by green hills, playgrounds, “pebble walks” (for people to feel different types of sensations on the feet), tennis courts, mini-golf, ski-jump ramp, ponds, and hiking.

During the week, I worked with the Chinese and German teams to learn about SAP software. On the weekend, we went on a tour of Castle Neuschwanstein. Its a beautiful castle in the Southern part of Bavaria, and home to one of the last kings of Bavaria, Ludwig III. Ludwig had a love of Wagner’s opera, nostalgia for the good old Medieval days when Kings went out and killed Dragons, and he was a flaming homo. Nothing wrong with that last part. But the inside of his castle is covered with fantasy art depicting Wagner’s epics, with (IMHO) a homosexual “tilt” to it. I didn’t bring my camera by accident…the picture above is from a promotional website. You could not take pictures from the inside anyway, and you would need to get to a mountain or someplace a little ways away to take a picture like this.

My Chinese team loved this place BTW. But they had concerns that the castle was not “old enough” for them to fully appreciate. I told them that they should take it as it is.

Field outside of church in Bavaria

After the castle, we saw a big baroque style church. I’m not into churches… the whole “Thou shalt not commit idolotry” thing gets to me when I’m in a Church with gold covered statues all over the place. Also, while Ludwig III wasted his family’s fortune to build 3 castles, the Church still takes money from common people.

I was happy that my Chinese team didn’t do stupid things like pretend to pray in the church. And they were generally very respectful ( I feel that as most Chinese don’t have religion, they don’t understand that they should be reverent in a place of worship).

The above picture is from outside the church. Germany really is very green, and very beautiful.

Bohemian Bagel and Lox (and American coffee)

I can honestly say that I am now Pro-German. German people are really cool. Friendly. Intelligent. Open. Older Bavarians are also cool… but somewhat “straight and narrow”. Maybe they are too stable for my tastes. And Germans seem sort of group-oriented to me. They like to go out in big groups. I realize that I had prejudices against Germans before going to Germany. Watched too many war movies I guess. Now those feelings are gone. I could even see myself buying a car from Bavarian Motor Works someday (but I won’t because I don’t want to own a car…public transport is better). I would be happy to live in Germany. Except that a few things would drive me nuts. Like…

-Shops close on Sundays (Chinese coworker asked me, “how can this be? Do they not want to make money?”)
-Shops close at 6PM
-Service people don’t acknowledge me if they are talking with friends.
-Everyone follows the rules way too much at work, even if it does not make sence.

Anyway, I wanted to see somewhere else besides Germany, so I got on a train to Prague, hereafter known as Praha. I could have flown to Amsterdam, but when I thought about it, the main reason why I wanted to go there was because I wanted to legally smoke pot. And that’s a silly reason to go to a country. The train to Praha was about 6 hours and 60 Euro (round trip on a Regensburg-Prague special), which was about the same travel time and much less money than getting to Munich airport to fly somewhere. I heard Prague was a beautiful city. I knew that they once elected a playwrite to be president (Vaclav Havel). My friend Ingrid says that all Prague girls are “dirty sluts”… but that is not why I wanted to go. I just wanted to see another country in Europe.

So in Praha, I ate a “Bohemian Bagel” with creamcheese and lox. Delicious. Everyone else in the bagel restaurant were Americans BTW.

Typical old-town street in Praha

Praha has;
-a large oldtown
- many churches
- a Franz Kafka museum (which I didn’t go to because I never read a Kafka book)
- a large Jewish section
-beautiful rivers
-a castle
- an election, where all the candidates are rather ugly IMHO
-lots of tourists from everywhere

Old Jewish Cemetary in Praha

Praha used to have a large Jewish population, which was wiped out during WWII. I went to the Jewish Quarter to see the museum. When I saw an exhibit of childrens art made by children who were murdered during the Holocaust, I cried like a girl and ran out (didn’t want people to see me like that). Then I got depressed because I realize its up to me to get my kids into Hebrew school, but right now that is logistically difficult. And Akiva can’t sit still.

The old Jewish cemetary above has been around since the 1400s. Its was a good place to calm down after the children’s art exhibit.

Beef Gulash and "dumplings"

I ate beef gulash with so-called dumplings in a Praha beer hall. Beer was great BTW. Gulash was great. Dumplings seem more like steamed bread… BTW, I also drank two herbal liquores which I liked alot. One was called Becherovka. The other is Fernet. I want to start drinking this everyday. It was good on my stomach. It made my throat feel good. Best alchohol drink I ever had. (I like Becherovka more than Fernet though).

Praha is known for its many spires. Not only the churches, but everywhere. Unfortunately, there were tourists everywhere… I didn’t want to take pictures of them, but that limited what I could picture.

On Charles Bridge

If I was going to create a cocktail of cultures, I would add 1/3 American (the freedom loving, confident part), 1/3 Italian (the expressive part), and 1/3 Russian (the intellectual, and sometimes cold part). The result would be Czech. How to describe Praha? Take San Francisco. Replace the ethnic Mexicans with Turkish. Get rid of most of the Asians, except the most pretentious ones (keep all the pretentious people of The City). Replace Mexican great eats with Turkish great Eats. Add beer halls. Remove 50% of the gay population. Remove 25% of the homeless population. Add a lot of hot Italian tourists. Add a lot more bars. Replace Gary Newsom and other politicians with uglier versions of themselves. Now you have Praha.

OK. These are silly generalizations. How else can I describe a place like Praha?

As I write this, I’m back in Suzhou. I’m very happy to be back. I’ll be very busy at work now. I’m very happy to be with the children and Haga. They had a tough time while I was gone…it seems they both got the Measles while I was in Europe. But they managed to have some fun too. More pics of the kids, and highlights of their last two weeks in the next post.

Jesse in Regensburg, Part 1

Posted 04 May 2010 — by admin
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I’ll add more comments when I can. I don’t know if it will update to Facebook, so if you want to read more about what I think about Bavarian Germans (ie. Healthy, friendly, group-oriented, stoic, a little Children-of-the-Corn-ish) then come back and read the link on the family blog. In the meantime, here are some pics.

Arrived in Munich early in the morning

Your's truly, waiting for the bus to go to work

With my team after work (waiting for bus)

Part of old town

Mr. Wang and I (one of my team-mates) eating and drinking at a biergarden

Steak brisket and potato dish

April Update: Travel and Passings

Posted 25 Apr 2010 — by admin
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The above image shows all of my children’s toys, except their 2 in door wagons, outdoor wagons, sports equipment, playdo sets, and art supplies. And does not include the case of books in our bedroom. I think if we can keep their toys organized as such a way, we can convert their room into an actual bedroom…sometime.

Today the Covners are in mourning; Sammy was put down. I’m sad, but my parents and sister are not good. I’m worrying for them. Any of my friends in San Diego (and close-areas), if you have time, please do something to support them. How to support them, for me, here so far away, I don’t know. News of Sammy’s passing made Akiva and Kenaz to ask about what happens after death. This type of question coming from them makes me go insane with worry, dread of the inevitable, and remorse. And desire to re-start smoking cigarettes.

In other news, I’m going to Germany tomorrow for business and will be there for two weeks. Kenaz is sick now (fever, rash, cough) but seems to be getting better. But he will be out of school for several days. So… Haga…my great, beautiful wife…will be missing a lot of work and taking care of the boys. I’m going to be doing factory tours and working in stuffy rooms as soon as I get to Germany. And translating for my team of 15 Chinese colleagues (my whole damn team!!!) … most of whom don’t speak English, and none have ever been out of China. I hope to travel for 2 days before I leave Germany. Originally I was going to fly somewhere, but now I think I’ll play it by ear.

I will be in Regensburg…which I believe is the town the Pope is from…not that I care about that fact BTW.


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I’ll try to post updates while there.

Love to all friends and family. May you be blessed with happiness and health.

Parks and Chinese Parks

Posted 06 Apr 2010 — by admin
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It was “Grave Sweeping” holiday in China. Which means we had a three-day weekend. We spend it by going to parks. First we went to an empty grass field near our house. There we blew bubbles, flew kites, and played soccer.

We also went to the Suzhou BaiTang Botanical Gardens.

One thing I notice…I have always noticed about Chinese public parks is that they are not meant for fun. They are meant for sitting around and relaxing. Its actually very similar to the famous Suzhou Gardens, which were originally high-end retirement areas for officials(and/or maybe brothel-fun parks…if you think dark thoughts like me) . The Gardens are meant to “encapsulate” and emulate natural areas. But in themselves are very artificial. That’s what Chinese parks are like. Sort of like a pretty movie-set. Complete with soft music coming from speakers. The old Gardens, only now, for the masses. Everyone can feel like they are rich and can walk around idly doing nothing. And like a movie set, you are not supposed to get rough. We had to check our balls and kites in at the front gate.

Of course, what the boys liked most was climbing on declarative rocks and ledges. For a long time.

Happy Passover!

Posted 30 Mar 2010 — by admin
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Assembled:”In every generation, each Jew must look upon himself as though he, personally, was among those who went forth from Egypt. Not our fathers alone did the Holy One, Blessed be He, redeem from suffering, but also us and our families.”

Leader (of course, me): “The struggle for freedom is a continuous struggle. For never does man reach total liberty and opportunity”

Assembled: “In every age, some new freedom is won and established, adding to the advancement of human happiness and security”

Leader (of course, me): “Yet, each age uncovers a formerly unrecognized servitude, requiring new liberation to set man’s soul free”

Assembled: “In every age the concept of freedom grows broader, widening the horizons for finer and nobler living.”


Leader (of course, me): “Each generation is duty bound to contribute to this growth, else mankind’s ideals become stagnant and stationary”

Assembled: ” The events in Egypt were but the beginning of a force in history which will forever continue”.

Leader (of course, me): “In this spirit we see ourselves as participants in the Exodus, for we must dedicate our energies tthe cause there begun.”


Tavon (assigned a Leader-passage): ” The simple one, with complete unconcern, regarded as simple because of his indifference asks ‘What is all this?’”


Jim (assigned a Leader-passage): “The wicked son asks: What mean these customs in which YOU engage, which the Lord commanded you to observe?”

Leader: “Let anyone who is hungry join us at this Seder, and let them partake of what we have to share.


Lo! This is the bread of affliction, the humble and simple bread which our ancestors ate in the land of Egypt

The last post I will make about this issue

Posted 23 Mar 2010 — by admin
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I may make a post when I finally change my email and calendar system. In the mean time, I recommend people see this post from Kai Pan and china/divide :Google Redirects! But Will The Chinese Government Block?!

For those of you who are cheering Google on for uncensoring their search results for the Chinese masses, you’re idiots. Google has done nothing of the sort. Google has simply done a three-card monte on you all. Consider the end result:

Emphasis his. Just the way he writes the word “idiots” makes me think that this man – Kai Pan – is my Asian younger twin-brother. “Idiots.” He says it just like me! I feel…tingly inside.

IMHO…Spring has arrived

Posted 21 Mar 2010 — by admin
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It was about 65 degrees today. We went on a bikeride from our appartment to Times Square. Long ride for both the kids. But its great not to have to wear heavy clothes.

And this is me on my awesome bicycle.